Jolene

by Dolly Parton

What is “Jolene” really about?

If you’ve ever wondered what “Jolene” by Dolly Parton is really about, you’re not alone. Let’s break it down.

In 'Jolene,' Dolly Parton pleads with a beautiful woman not to take her man, expressing her vulnerability and fear of losing the love she cherishes.

So… what’s this song really about?

At its core, 'Jolene' is a poignant exploration of insecurity and jealousy wrapped in a plea for mercy. The song reflects the feelings of many who fear that their loved ones might be lured away by someone more attractive. Dolly Parton utilizes the story of Jolene, an almost mythically beautiful woman, to express deeper themes of human desire, fear, and the complexities of romantic relationships. The narrator's repeated imploration not to take her man, despite Jolene's ability to do so, underlines a universal vulnerability in love, where personal happiness often feels perilously dependent on the actions of others. Moreover, the song subtly engages with themes of power and choice. The narrator recognizes Jolene’s power, both in her beauty and her freedom of choice, setting a dynamic where the narrator feels powerless. This power dynamic, coupled with the raw emotional vulnerability displayed by the narrator, adds a layer of depth to the song, making it resonant with listeners who have experienced similar emotional turmoil in their relationships.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What inspired Dolly Parton to write 'Jolene'?
Dolly Parton was inspired by a red-headed bank clerk who flirted with her husband soon after they got married.

Q: When was 'Jolene' released?
The song 'Jolene' was released in October 1973.

Lyrics to “Jolene”

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[Verse 3]
You could have your choice of men
But I could never love again
He's the only one for me, Jolene
I had to have this talk with you
My happiness depends on you
And whatever you decide to do, Jolene
[Chorus]
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
I'm begging of you, please don't take my man
Jolene, Jolene, Jolene, Jolene
Please don't take him even though you can
Jolene, Jolene