Message To My Girl

Message to My Girl' by Split Enz expresses a profound commitment and clarity in a romantic relationship, moving beyond superficial gestures to a declaration of deep, genuine love.

In 'Message to My Girl,' Split Enz delves into a heartfelt declaration of love that transcends the usual surface-level romance often depicted in songs. The narrator begins by rejecting 'empty self-possession,' suggesting a move away from self-centeredness towards a more shared, meaningful connection. The lyrics hint at a previous reluctance to openly express feelings, underscored by a fear of the vulnerability that comes with such openness. Yet, the resolution here isn't fleeting like a New Year's promise; it's described as 'more than that,' indicating a profound and possibly life-altering revelation. As the song progresses, the tangible elements of the relationship, such as 'the touch of your sweet hand,' are highlighted as irreplaceable and grounding, contrasting with the metaphor of being 'buried in the sand,' which may symbolize isolation or avoidance. The singer's resolve to communicate his feelings, despite the habitual defenses signified by recurring dreams and internal conflicts, supports the theme that true love requires bravery and honesty, beyond mere words or thoughts.